Your Dad's Best Father's Day

Hi, again,

Father's Day is coming up and I wanted to share a few tips for how to make this one the best ever for your Dad.

Planning for Father's Day is much different than planning for Mother's Day. For Mother's Day, you can offer to do things around the house, you can take Mom out to dinner, you can give her lots of touching personal gifts and you can tell her you love in many ways.

Most Dads wouldn't find that sort of event nearly as exciting.

Over the years, Dads I have spoken to tell me that "it's just another day."

Well, let's change all that!

First, break away from the idea that what you do for Father's Day has to be done on Father's Day. You can certainly give the gift and alert your Dad to your plans on Father's day . . . but June isn't the ideal time to actually celebrate a lot of Dads' interests. Chances are that your Dad has never been given a Father's Day gift that he can use on a more appropriate day. Surprise him!

Second, what has he always wanted to do . . . but hasn't done yet? Dads sacrifice a lot for their children, and delayed joys can pile up. Perhaps he'll never be able to afford that imported sport's car . . . but you may be able to afford to rent one for him for a day when he would enjoy driving it. Who would he like to do or see that day? Many charities auction off the chance to meet famous people (including sports stars) for lunch . . . and other fabulous experiences. One man I know paid not very much money to watch a Patriots game in Coach Bill Belichick's sky box at Gillette Stadium while the coach's wife and daughter celebrated his daughter's birthday. If you ask your Dad what's he's always wanted to do, he'll tell you. Just don't wait to too close to Father's Day or you'll spoil the surprise.

Third, build the day around a theme. Here's an example. If your Dad has always been a big fan of fishing, take his photographs from successful fishing trips and put them into an album for him. Take him out fishing for the day. Call up his fishing buddies and ask them about their favorite experiences from fishing with Dad and put together an audio tape of what they say. Make a Father's Day card out of a fish he has caught that you still have in the freezer. Bake a fish-shaped cake with a little model of him on top . . . fishing away. Give him a vanity license plate that says "I'd rather be fishing." Blow up his favorite picture of a fish he's caught and put it into a beautiful frame.

Fourth, spoil him with what he really loves, but hardly ever gets. Many Dads like certain foods . . . but never get them because they make a huge mess in the kitchen. Other Dads like to skip shaving for the day . . . but don't on Father's Day because everyone expects them to go out to dinner.

Most billionaire Dads will tell you that no one has ever put together a day like the one I've just outlined for you. And you should be able to do it on a limited budget! If you cannot buy something at a celebrity auction, simply look out for free events. For example, the Patriots have open practices in August . . . and you can shake almost every player's hand at that one . . . and there's no charge. If you arrange to take Dad to a practice in that rented sports car, he'll have a ball.

Make it a great Father's Day!

Donald W. Mitchell, Your Dream Concierge

Copyright 2005 Donald W. Mitchell